Ahilya Bamroo grew up in an experiment

The actor talks her first crush, favourite club songs and the meaning of home

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Kanica Joshi

Ahilya Bamroo grew up in an experiment

Ahilya Bamroo is passionate about many things: acting, music, sustainability, shopping local. But she is perhaps most passionate about the places she calls home: Auroville and Pondicherry. From her first crush to her pet peeves and favourite club songs, the actor, content creator and friend of QUOD recalls the hilarious and heartwarming memories and emotions that make a home. As QUOD returns home, so does she.

On childhood pranks

I used to like playing pranks on my teachers but on a small scale. I remember this one time my friend and I were in an embroidery class and we were so bored, we wanted time to go faster. So, I snuck under the table and started to sing. And then my friend was like ā€œoh no, they’ve started playing the radio, we can’t focus on class so I’m going to go outside and tell them to stop.ā€ Thinking back, there is no way you can confuse a sound coming from under the table with the sound coming from a radio outside. I think we were completely delusional about the whole situation and the teacher was just humouring us but we wasted fifteen minutes with this whole fiasco. That’s a weird ass story, actually.

On her favourite cartoons growing up

There was this cartoon called Kipper. He was this little dog and had a pig friend and they had these beautifully illustrated little adventures. I loved Oswald and Courage the Cowardly Dog. Cartoon Network was my jam. But I liked Pogo too.

On what she loves about Pondicherry and Auroville

Pondicherry is very beautiful and walkable and you’re on the coast. When I was growing up, it was very quiet as well. I think it only became more of a tourist destination post 2013-2014. But there was a time when I would never see a car. You would see motorcycles and cycles and once in a while, you’d see a Maruti Suzuki and be like, whoa, that’s crazy. I also grew up in Auroville, where the multiculturalism meant I met a lot of people from different countries and cultures. I learnt a lot of different languages as a result. And accents. More accents than languages.

On the drawbacks of growing up in AurovilleĀ 

You grow up in a little bit of a bubble because the world doesn’t necessarily function like that. If you know a little bit about Auroville, it’s a socialist, communal township with alternative education and ways of living. So, I essentially grew up in this experiment. It was great as a child because I had so much freedom and was always in nature and people cared about trees and plants. But it’s not clean anymore because of tourism.

In a small town, you also know everybody and don’t have the dynamism of what a city has to offer in terms of what you can do on an average Wednesday night. There are limited options. If there’s an event, it’s only because someone you know made it happen. You can’t step out and expect there to be an already established series of things for you to do. You are responsible for making things happen.

On her biggest pet peeve

My biggest pet peeve is people throwing trash on the ground. It doesn’t compute in my brain that we have this beautiful cultural ideology at Auroville of deifing nature and seeing God in everything, then why are we throwing trash on God? What’s even crazier is there are trash cans in Auroville every 500 metres away, so people just didn’t have the patience to keep their trash on them for that much time.Ā 

On random obsessions as a child

Growing up in Pondicherry, we were all obsessed with stamps but not in a cool sense of receiving letters and creating a stamp collection. Instead, we went to a local bookshop where for 200 rupees, you could buy a pre-existing fake stamp collection. Then we’d stick them in a book and exchange stamps and create rankings for which stamps were cooler. You were cool according to which stamps you had. We were also obsessed with magnets. We’d put them in handkerchiefs and go into sand pits and search for pieces of iron. Some kid said if you collect enough iron and melt it, you get a new magnet but that’s really not true.

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On her favourite club songs

Oh my God, so many. I love We Found Love by Rihanna and Calvin Harris. I like Promiscuous by Nelly Furtado and Timbaland. I love the Ne-Yo and Pitbull song Time of My Life. And I Got A Feeling by Black Eyed Peas. Pretty basic answers.

On her first crush

I had a crush on this one boy from my class and I just thought he was really cool and funny because he was very good at sports. I somehow equated that to the ultimate coolness. That was my first really crush. It’s a horrible thing to say but he’s not very cut today. I met him again and was like, ā€˜I don’t know what I was thinking.’

On her teen years

I shipped myself with Niall Horan. I used to watch YouTube imagines—these fanfiction stories written in comic sans—and it was so crazy. It would be like ā€˜Niall is at home and your car breaks down and he walks out of his house and is like do you need some help with that?’ I straight up sat there and imagined our relationship.

On a day of her life she would go back to

If I could relive a day in my life, it wouldn’t be a big moment. I think there was a day at some point in the last few years where all of my school friends and I were back in Auroville at the same time after ages. And we met up and played a game of hide and seek like we used to. Even as it was happening, I had a feeling that it’s going to be a really long time till we have all of us again in this space together.

On the meaning of home

Home, to me, is peace and quiet. Also, greenery. But ultimately, it’s more about the people than the location. So, home is just a place where I feel safe.

On how QUOD makes her feel

I wore QUOD’s billow dress for Elle’s Graduates 2024 event. I love the shape of the dress: this corset with strings, then balloon skirt. I felt witchy in the best way possible. Very Wednesday/Morticia Addams/goth witch. I love the period silhouettes and how powerful they make you feel.Ā 

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